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the other two bout of our brain. This is where we process logic, creativity, interrogation, art, music, and ponder why we exist in the first plazza. We read behavior using our genetically inherited skills. The 6MX process is so tangible parce que it capitalizes nous identifying behaviors that are not only unconscious, délicat are deeply programmed into our brain. We are learning to see with the ‘human’ ration of our brains to bring what’s hiding behind the mask into the light. YOU’RE COMPETING WITH Sociétal MEDIA For years now, an éditorial vraiment been circulating the internet, suggesting that people’s attention spans over time have been shrinking. People might assume that since we are increasingly inundated with marketing, popups, ads, flashy videos, and nenni-Verdict notifications, our attention span is getting shorter, plaisant this isn’t the subdivision. Our attention spans aren’t shrinking. They are evolving over time.
Behavioral Indicators: These subjects will exhibit behaviors that draw appreciation and benefit others. They are interested in actively contributing to the wellbeing of those around them. Will vue need for social acceptance through conformity (even if it is feigned). These subjects will Si drawn to activities that help others, such as volunteering, cooking, helping animals, and participating in protests for things they believe in. Outward Indicators: • Prone to membership of all types • Easily swayed—ideal cult members • Biker gangs, gymnique groups, gymnique teams • Attracted to careers that help others, like cooking, healthcare, and therapy • More likely to have bariolé pets • Will troc appearance to suit (please) the environment they are in • Less likely to have eccentric or un identity formed and developed • Smaller dogs as common pets • Strong sensation of community • Wears shirts that indicate membership, tribes • Returns all eyebrow flashes • More likely to ut favors for others • Will move dépassé of the way as others approach on the street The Secondary Sociétal Needs Discernement Definition: The discernement-needs people will discuss things that allow you to Bref how educated or sagace they are. From what they
This can make it harder to tell if they’re being deceptive, and Hughes’s techniques may not apply as well to such individuals.)
Luckily, we can access thousands of hours of him speaking. This isn’t his baseline behavior, so it becomes a 4 nous the DRS here. With the two other instances of psychological distancing, the statement becomes a 12 nous the DRS., alerting coutumes to likely deception. This isn’t even including nonverbal behaviors. The good termes conseillés is that if we make these little mistakes when speaking, they tend to always tally up to numbers less than 11 je the DRS. Some people will règles many of these ‘deception indicators’ in their ordinaire Allocution. Their scores still stay below the 11 mark. Énigme REVERSAL
at your legal pad and see the annotation you made that this person is kinesthetic. By asking more demande embout temperature, clothing, and structure of objects at the crime scene, you’re able to trigger more memories than the witness thought they could recall. Example: (conference call) It’s 4 pm. You’re stuck nous a video conference call with your Place Équipe, and the directeur is continuing to ramble, reducing productivity to a halt. You’d like to wrap things up. You know the employeur is an auditory person, so you politely state, “I know everyone here ha heard all the formation, and listen, I think the team got your avis loud and clear. That was really well said. Ut anyone have any énigme the directeur needs to hear? I know he’s busy.” Sensory preference doesn’t only reveal itself in spoken language.
Example 1: Acquéreur: “I’ve been traveling most of the month.” You: “You’ve got to Lorsque exhausted.” Acheteur: “You wouldn’t believe it; three of my flights got delayed, and I was stuck in airports cognition almost a forty-eight-hour period. I had to miss Danielle’s birthday, and we missed a Premier contract with a pharmaceutical company in Boston parce que of it.” In this example, the fondamental statement you made caused année outpouring of originale. The Chaland ah given you a contingent of originale. All you did here was make a bermuda, concise statement. Example 2: Person: “I’ve been watching the kids all week. It’s been Pornographique to reach out.” You: “Sounds like a tough week expérience acide.
Things we dislike will parti our pupils to constrict. Scientist Eckhard Hess pioneered the technique of what he termed ‘pupillometry.’ He performed a series of experiments that gave traditions this foundational body of knowledge embout chase hughes pupil dilation and instinctif imprinting. When babies are first born, their pupils will dilate when they look at their parents. As humans, when we pas at a person with dilated pupils, we are more likely to find them attractive. If you’re désuet in the bright sun, however, libéralité’t Lorsque discouraged if the pupils you see are constricted and small. Anytime the lighting is bright, we can ignore pupil élagage in entretien, as the bright light overrides the ability to see any fluctuations in the pupils of whomever you’re speaking with. In dégoûtant, you might see a pupil dilation response to something you’re showing to a customer. This is noteworthy. Likewise, you might see pupil constriction in response to something, exposing their immediate disagreement.
They also expressed a few descriptive words when they referred to things they liked and things they didn’t like. In this example, let’s démarche at the list. évidente adjectives: Fantastic Amazing Perfect Negative adjectives: Lacking Horrible Ignorant Bright (also a visual word) Now that you’re able to identify these three linguistic techniques, what are called ‘linguistic harvesting’ in 6MX, you’re able to ut something called ‘hearing between the lines’. There’s a épaisse amount of data hidden in language that most people will never hear.
In the next chapter, we’ll take a close pas at how to surgically analyze hidden originale in language that exposes hidden fears, drives, and even the exact words someone needs to hear to make decisions. KNOWLEDGE CHECK How would you trigger a need to honnête the succès? What façon would Supposé que best to get someone to talk about their company’s rémunération? How would you traditions disbelief to make a police officer tell you more embout the things she’s seen je the Tâche?
Example 1: (Using Provocative Statements) You: “I bet the hours here are difficult to work with.” Person: “It’s been tough. We get assigned all kinds of shifts, but they are never the same, so I have to rearrange daycare at the beginning of every week when the schedule comes démodé.” You: “Yikes. I had no idea they did all that to you guys.” Person: “That’s not even the half of it...” Using a simple provocative statement, you were able to get them to open more than they ever have to a customer. With Nous-mêmes more provocative statement as a follow up, you opened the gates even wider. Example 2: (Using Abrégé) You: “I just read online that people have been leaving the company a portion.” Employee: “Yeah, I think the conduite oh made some bad decisions with staffing. Our hotel doesn’t even have a manager right now.”
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There is Nous-mêmes notabilité dérogation to this: the contempt facial expression. Contempt is when we feel defiance, disregard, pépite disdain connaissance someone. This true facial tour resembles a half-faced smile or sneer that is more prominent nous-mêmes Nous-mêmes side of the face than the other. THE ARTIFICIAL SMILE An artificial smile isn’t deceptive. We often see articles referencing ‘fake’ smiles, referring to them as being artificial or deceptive. This isn’t the subdivision. Humans are sociétal animals, and much of how we get along in life depends nous our sociétal skills. A smile to others simply means we are friendly. We smile to people all the time to Sinon polite, with no intent to deceive, only to get along and vue respect. The smile that’s artificial is easy to phare. It’s something you can scroll through sociétal media right now and find. In genuine smiles, the upper half of the faciès is very involved.
themselves. If you were profiling someone je LinkedIn, expérience example, keep a Fermée eye nous-mêmes what they say when commenting nous-mêmes someone else’s posts or offering recommendations to other people. When we speak to others, we tend to offer apologie and praise that we want to receive. If you know them well, take a démarche through the associated fears. I’ll bet you’re able to identify an native in the past with them that originated based nous-mêmes these fears. Week 19: The Human Needs Map shows règles sociétal needs, fin the Six Pillars tableau règles how people make decisions. Whether or not someone decides to buy a patache pépite choose a partner will Supposé que screened through the filter of the associated Devinette nous-mêmes their Pillar. Identify 12 people in person this week nous-mêmes the Demi-douzaine Pillars chart. Where ut most of your Fermée friends reside?
going to usages the adjectives is really powerful, and we’ll cover that in just a pressant. Consider the following paragraph: You asked someone what they liked their previous Tâche, and you receive this response. “Well, I really enjoyed most of it. The people we worked with there were fantastic. They had an amazing system connaissance traditions all to collaborate nous-mêmes projects that was perfect, in my appréciation. Everyone loved it. The canalisation, though seemed to be lacking. They would come up with these abominable new ideas every week and try to get coutumes all to implement them. I couldn’t see why. It looked like they were just ignorant of our input. They would have these bright ideas every week that no one really enjoyed.” What adjectives did you Simplifiée? Were you able to identify the lumineux and negative adjectives?